Spring has sprung, and love is in the air -- so are some fantastic tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! Whenever the weather starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we had a special someone to spend #time with. Sometimes, it can be tricky to find - and get! - that great guy you've been wishing for. So, here are some top tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! It's all about confidence, being yourself and really putting yourself out there! If you do not make yourself available then don't expect any magic. Be open minded with a free spirit and always surround your mind with a positive mindset.
All of my tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you surround being yourself. If you're fake, it doesn't matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won't really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a #guy likes me for me. After all, you would hate to fall in love with a guy that isn't being himself right?
OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE
Whenever I'm trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn't mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic #hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself #look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean #bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume. Seriously ladies,smelling good and looking beautiful is good business. I do this for myself, so I can be confident in who I am.
Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a #guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the #time. If he is attune to #women, he will ask you questions too and it'll develop into a nice little back and forth conversation!
HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE
In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a "glass half full" person when I'm trying to catch a hot #guy. People always tend to #look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I've got a smile on my face! So flash those pearly whites!
Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I'm telling you - it works. Guys just love to be showered with attention and treated like a king. So, toss your hair a#little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes LOL...yes Ladies. Even those old tricks might seem tried and true, they're tried and true because they actually work!
Trying to be unique and different is a #way I've always tried to interest guys. I don't want him to think that I'm just like all the other girls out there... instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don't talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you're worldy!
INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT
Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. So, when I'm trying to attract a guy's attention, I will #look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I'll touch his hand while I'm explaining something.
BRING HIM A TREAT
The old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his#stomach isn't just an old saying for no reason- it's totally true! I always bake a little treat for a guy when I'm trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. When my husband and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. He just loved it!
GIVE HIM FREEDOM
When a guy's trying to determine if you're girlfriend material, he will test you a #little bit. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more. In my experience, if any #guy ever got the impression that I'd try to tie him down, he'd be gone lightning fast. So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare #time.
LET HIM CALL YOU
When I'm trying to get a #guy, I play a little hard to get. I don't call him all the #time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother. I want him to think that I'm too busy out there#having a great time to bother with him, and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he's interested in sharing any time with me! Let him do the pursuing, and he'll be much more interested in you.
DON'T APPEAR DESPERATE
Guys want someone that is confident and someone that is secure in themselves. Even if you aren't confident, don't worry, there are tons of ways to build it. Start small and just go from there. I know not appearing desperate is hard, but if you appear to have it all together and even play hard to#guy? Your #crush will like you even more!
Guys love someone they can trust. I learned the hard way that telling my girlfriends every thing about a new #guy in my life wasn't the best idea. Word always gets back to the guy that I've talked about what he told me or told details about our#time together, and he always bolts. So, discretion is the best policy. Don't tell your girls every #little bit of your private conversations, and your guy will trust and respect you much more.
BE SUPPORTIVE OF HIS INTERESTS
Guys love it when a girl takes an interest in what he likes to do. Even if you don't necessarily like what he is into (like video games or sports!), just give it a try -- that way you can have some common ground. Guys, that also means that you'll have to take an interest in your girl's interests too! A#relationship is a two way street.